Ya know I’m probably one of the most controversial disabled men in the state of Washington if not the country, I was raised by abled bodied people that taught me to always try my best and never give up and always stand up for yourself, always treat others with respect but never take any shit and just try, try, try and do, do, do, unfortunately sometimes they were wrong and it would backfire on me or them, sometimes I was pushed way more than I can handle, sometimes it would effect me physically or emotionally, and they never really truly understood what it was like to be me and what I actually lived with on a daily basis but I am glad that they taught me to never give up because now I never do but sometimes that backfires too lol, my point is, you can be raised and taught one way but when you become an adult you can always choose a different way and be who YOU want to be.